stuck on what to do next?
start with who you are.
for when your work looks fine on paper, something underneath has gone still, and you've been going back and forth about your next step for longer than you'd like to admit.
four one-to-one sessions to get to know yourself well enough to move.
Here is the deal:
you feel stuck in life.
you are thinking: “is this it?”
you've thought about it from every angle.
you've made the lists, talked to the people you trust, and you're still going back and forth.
your life looks good from the outside.
people are impressed by it. and you still catch yourself asking: is this it?
you feel a little ungrateful for wanting something else,
when nothing is actually wrong.
a lot of us in this place try to think our way out. we analyse every option, look for the one right answer, and wait to feel certain before we move. certainty doesn't come. so we stay.
It doesn’t have to be this way
feeling unfulfilled is data.
the feeling you want to get rid of is telling you something true: the reasons behind your earlier choices have stopped working, and your next step can't be chosen the same way.
that's uncomfortable. it's also the most interesting place you've stood in years.
the options aren't the problem. without a clear picture of what matters to you, every option looks equally possible and equally wrong. so before we look at what's next, we look at you.
i’ve learned it’s not as difficult as we think
i know what it is like to feel stuck on what to do next in life.
it feels really tricky. and painful.
when i decided to move my entire life back to denmark after almost a decade on the us westcoast, i was baffled by the experience of beginning again, and what exactly to do to regain a sense of meaning and direction. (and that was btw on top of navigating a divorce and leaving a job i thought was my dream job).
i’ve since realized that we tend to stare ourselves blind on the big shifts, the enormous leap it feels like we need to take, it will paralyze us.
but when you instead find an anchor in yourself, and take small, intentional steps from there, everything is absolutely doable.
so i invented the step by step way to do this, based on what actually worked for me.
to double down on figuring out the exact ways to navigate a loss of meaning and uncover new language for what i myself had experienced, i finessed this process with a group of women from all over the world, to validate it and build proof that we can move through change in a way that actually lights our fire and bring us closer to each other.
it fills my cup to show you that navigating this moment in life is incredible universal, and i believe it is a moment for you to step into your best years to come. and no one should feel alone here.
how the back-and-forth stops
you keep going back and forth because you're weighing your options against nothing solid.
root gives you something to weigh them against. it's the first phase of the inner authority method™, built for exactly this point.
between sessions, you work through three exercises. each one takes on a piece of what's keeping you stuck:
stop guessing why you're so drained.
what you're made of maps where your energy goes: what drains you even when it looks good on paper, and where you come alive. the tiredness starts to make sense, and you can see what to move away from.
stop weighing every option as if they're equal.
your values compass shows what actually guides your choices right now. once you can see it, most options fall away on their own, and the ones left are worth your attention.
stop worrying you'll pick the wrong thing.
mapping your drive finds the red thread that has moved you your whole life. when a next step lines up with it, you'll feel it, and you'll trust the choice enough to make it.
then we talk it through. i ask the questions that are hard to ask yourself, so you're not going in circles on your own anymore.
how it works
1. a free 20-minute call. we talk about where you are, i tell you how the sessions work, and we see if it's a fit. if it isn't, i'll say so.
2. four sessions, 75 minutes each, two weeks apart. that gives the work between sessions room to happen.
3. work between sessions. one exercise at a time, in your own words, on paper.
4. a written summary of what came through, yours to keep.
sessions run online, or in person in copenhagen. wednesdays and thursday evenings (copenhagen time), so the americas can join too.
what you leave with
you most likely won’t leave with a five-year plan. but something better — you'll leave knowing what's yours and what isn't: what gives you energy, what you care about, and what you've been overriding. and you'll have one next step that comes from that.
clarity isn't certainty. it's knowing what you stand for, so you can build from there.
this is for you if…
you don’t know how to get unstuck in work or your life,
and you're tired of the back-and-forth.
you've tried working it out on your own,
journaled in circles, read the books, and you're ready for structure and someone to think with.
you're willing to do some honest writing between conversations.
this is work that slowly, but profoundly builds your internal antennas back up, and writing is your most significant tool.
questions?
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this phase of my process, root, stands on its own. if you want to keep going, the method has three more phases, and we can decide together whether that makes sense.
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if you've been asking the question for a while, you're in the right place. being unsure is normal.
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